Home Again

We're back home again. Hooray. I was very happy to see my animals and to sleep in my own bed. (I have a strange love affair with my bed, does anyone else?)

I'm still trying to catch up on life outside of vacation, so until I can do that, I'll share some pictures of the trip. All pictures are by Steven, so thanks to him. (as always)

We had a marvelous time, filled with doing a whole lotta nothing. I read a book, sat, ate (a LOT), sat some more, and tried not to burn my feet on the Florida pavement. (note to others: always wear flip flops on the boardwalk)

We had a wonderful week with Taylor, Justin, Mary, Larry and Griffin. There's nothing better than memories made with friends and family.

Larry and Steven were in 7th Heaven with all the photo ops around the house.

When I say we ate, we ATE. One night, Larry made us Sushi and Crab Legs. TO DIE FOR. Please note the two big bowls of butter.

Taylor and Justin checking out the fogged up lens.

A typical shot-a Domino game. Note the baby foot in the lower right hand corner of the pic.

Mary and Griff having a quite moment. Awwww.

The twins spent a day at Disney on their own.

I got the chance to snuggle with Griffin. I am his Sleep Mentor. (I'm good at sleeping)

I could get real used to this vacationing thang.

Some Camera Phone Vacation Pix

This, my friends, is vacation in progress.

The Weekend that Was

Well, we made it. What a crazy weekend it was. I am still pooped from the trip to Mississippi. Now, I'm pooped from the big Graduation Weekend. I need a vacation. Hey! Luckily, I have one planned for next week. Funny how it all works out, eh?

Our weekend began when our dear friends, the Jackson's, arrived from St. Louis. I don't have much family, so I really count on my friends to serve as my surrogate family members during important occasions. They didn't fail me. Mike, Rose and Angela came out and made the weekend so fun and so special. They are truly the nicest people on earth, and make everything better. (kind of like cake icing, butter on popcorn, or rain on a Saturday morning.) Thank you to them for all the support and help they gave us, and for coming out to celebrate with us! Here they are (with Steven) at the beach on Day One:

We celebrated Steven's 41st (what a baby) birthday at our favorite Irish Pub, Madra Rua. So many of our dear friends came to celebrate with us, it was so nice. After the pub, we opened gifts and had some cake at the homestead. Little Stevie McCabe loved his cake.

That locker had a "yearbook" and stickers inside of it. Great fun for the silly adults in the crowd.

Saturday was Graduation Day. Since Taylor graduated a year early, I knew a total of four kids in her graduating class. (including her) Even so, I found myself with a big lump in my throat as they all processed into the coliseum. And, I'm always amazed that as they sit down, they immediately start looking around for Mom and Dad. I think I was most teary-eyed when they said the last person's name, and the kids all anticipated getting to turn their tassels. In that moment, all things are possible, you know?

I have to apologize for the following picture. I have no idea what is going on with my chest, but man oh man, I am looking crooked. I digress, here we are, in a very proud moment:

After the Saturday festivities came the Sunday party. My friend, Laura's son, Layne, also graduated this year. Thus, we had a combined party for Layne and Taylor. It was great fun, and I'm sure another blog is forthcoming about that specifically. For the time being, here's a pic of us all at the Graduation Luau.

Everything was crazy busy and each minute was jam packed with activity. But, I did have time to be thankful for so many good friends and a wonderful family. Our friends were so generous to Steven and to Taylor. I feel truly blessed.

Aloha until next time!

Just a Thought or Two

I sincerely believe that flip flops might be one of the world's greatest inventions.

EVER.

Unless they look like this:

Cap and Gown Me Please

Here we are, the whole happy family in June of 1981. I had brown hair. ONE color. I will never have one color hair again. My brothers have black hair, no grey or white. Both my parents are alive. I just realized that in this pic, my folks are younger than I am today.

Fast forward to 2009. I'm two days away from Taylor's graduation. Jake graduated four years ago, so this is my baby's graduation. I haven't hit emotions yet, but when I pulled up this picture, I realize how young I was then, and how young Taylor is now, and all she's about to face.

Many of the new things will be exciting. Some will be scary, others heartbreaking. I'll always be there for her, but really, it is her journey she's now starting. The last 17 years have been my journey, now I'm just the back seat driver. (Larry)

She won't have the wisdom of grandparents to guide her, all but one of her grands has passed. I was very lucky to have them in my life for a long long time. My grandmother (on the right) is still with us, and her mere presence guides all of us. I hope that I've been able to pass on a bit of their SMARTS to her. Grandparents are the best.

What do we tell our kids as they face adulthood? What sage advice do we have to give? I'm going to have to think on this one for a bit. I just hope I can find the words to help her keep this smile on her face.

Where's the Cold Beer?

As many of you know, we spent the last weekend in Oxford, Mississippi for the NCAA Baseball Regional. I have so many things to write, but with all the graduation craziness upon us, it's going to have to wait. I did, however, want to share some LOVELY family photos with all of you. It's amazing how attractive we all are.

Steven likes to get people to take self portraits. We sat at Boure in Oxford, awaiting our dinner (I recommend the shrimp and grits) and this is the result:

He looks much less stressed than he really was here. I guess he had it easy. All he had to do was coach. We all had to root the team on to victory.

Cynthia Lynn took this picture three times, in order to get the nostrils just right. Well done.

Mickey is really into gang signs. I'm not sure what this means, probably something along the lines of, "My aunt is the coolest ever."

My oldest brother, Jeff. He is amazed that we found cold beer. And, he loves the Colonel. CRAMBONE.

Ty is all about bodily functions. ALL THE TIME.

My glamour shot, circa 2009.

Cindy's mom, Pat. Best giggler this side of the Mississippi. Oh, that was punny!

Cindy's dad, Ron; affectionately known as Tubby. Or, as Steven would say, "Butty."

Wait, he looks too normal. Well, he's had practice at this.



And now a few normal pictures of some really cool things.

National Anthem prior to Game 1.



Team "Meeting" prior to game 3.




A Daddy and his boy.

Taking a breath

In the last week, we've:

Driven to Mississippi. (and back)

Watched three baseball games.

Eaten dinner with family three times.

Listened to a great audiobook. (Dog On It. I highly recommend it!)

Worked a month end in a condensed day.

Folded the clothes in my closet.

Washed, dried, folded and PUT AWAY the laundry from the trip to Mississippi.

Had some VERY strange dreams.

And reunited with all our animals. I have some blogs rolling around in my head that I'm dying to write, but that will have to wait another day. I just felt like I had to get this all out, kind of like dumping some of the junk. :-)

GRADUATION IS JUST AROUND THE CORNER!! THEN, will the world slow down a bit?